Strap On Play has been a choice for lesbians, LGBTQ and dominants for as long as sex toys have been around.  They allow for penetrative sex without having a male counterpart.

Exactly what is a strap on?

Essentially it is a harness that goes around a female’s waist. Then either has a dildo or vibrator attached to it as a whole or has an interchangeable element which allows you to swap in and swap out dildo’s of your choice. These are the type that I would generally recommend because when you are ready to switch up your play. You won’t have to buy a whole new harness and you can just buy a dildo that is compatible separately.

Strap On Play

So what happens when you get bored of the same sort of play? Well there are a variety of different ways and products that you can use whilst using your Strap On that can really maximise both the givers and receivers pleasure.

Below I am going to give you a few recommendations and products that would work fantastically to really spice up your Strap On Play!

Using Vibrating Cock Rings on the dildo during sex

By using vibrating cock rings on the dildo whilst you are having sex you are able to give your partner that extra bit of stimulation during penetration. How this happens is once the dildo is inserted to a certain depth, the cock ring (on and vibrating) will hit the clitoris. And give that extra buzz that your partner needs to reach climax. Keep in mind a large percentage of women can only climax from clitoral stimulation.  A great thing is, if your partner wants non stop clitoral stimulation whilst you are penetrating with the strap on. You can use the cockring in between your fingers like a finger vibe and hold it there.

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NU 7 Function Rechargeable Bullet Ring

This is the cockring that I would recommend for a few reasons.

  • NU Sensuelle from Novel Creations is a reputable brandwith great quality products that tend to have more power than other bullets and cock rings on the market. Its submersible so it can be great for strap on shower sex.

  • Bullet is completely rechargeable and does not come with the frustrating watch batteries that most old or inexpensive bullets come with.

  • Fantastic to use during foreplay also whilst using a blind fold to cut off the sense of sight and heighten the sense of touch by rubbing it all along the body.

  • Ring is super stretchy and can be made to fit any dildo you choose to use.

  • Bullet is removable, meaning that it can be taken out of its designated sleeve.

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Pink Strap On

Using Remote Control Vibrators during Strap On play

Just because you are using the Strap On does not mean you have to miss out on receiving some pleasure also. Buy yourself a remote control egg or a WeVibe Chorus and take the whole experience to another level. Your partner can control the remote and change the functions with each thrust or use the functions as an indicator of the tempo that she wants.  Two products that I would recommend work fantastically with Strap On’s and are a great way for you BOTH to benefit.

 Adam & Eve Turn Me On Rechargeable Love Bullet

A great way for the giver to experience internal pleasure whilst they are still maintaining a great thrust rhythm. Great thing about using this toy is that you can change your thrusting rhythm. Go along with the vibrations of the toy.

WeVibe Chorus is fantastic to Use.
  • With the right strap-on, it will put pressure on the clitoral element of the WeVibe, which in turn gives more stimulation to the wearer.

  • WeVibe remote has a mode which allows you to control the toy’s vibrations by how you squeeze. Harder you squeeze the harder it goes.

  • You can use the WeVibe on your partner whilst using your strap on for anal sex. This will give your partner 3 levels of stimulation as the WeVibe will be vibrating on the clitoris and internally on the G-Spot

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Using a double penetration dong for anal action at the same time

By adding a double penetration dong to your strap-on, which essentially is held in place like how a cock ring.  You give your partner that extra pleasure and stimulation that anal sex provides whilst also allowing them to enjoy vaginal stimulation.

Strap On sex should never feel limited.

If you are going through a rut, try out the above different ways to really spice it up for you and your partner. All toys that have been mentioned (except the double penetration dong) can be used without a strap on also so you are not limited or restricted.

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Jigsaw Puzzles For Adults

In Australia the CoronaVirus had an impact on us all.  Social distancing laws, social gathering restrictions reduced to two persons in a public space made it impossible for many businesses to continue trading.  Public health advice was to stay home unless for shopping for food or essential items.

Australian Prime Minister was asked.

JOURNALIST

So what is the rationale in that case for keeping shopping centres, apart from food shops, open?

PRIME MINISTER

Well, what we’ve said today is you should be only going out to shop for things that you actually need and you should be doing it on an irregular basis. I’ll give you an example. Our kids are at home now, as are most kids, and Jenny went out yesterday and bought them a whole bunch of jigsaw puzzles. I can assure you over the next few months, we’re going to consider those jigsaw puzzles absolutely essential. It’s important that parents and families and households can get the things that they need to completely change the way they’re going to live for the next six months at least. And so what we’ve done is sought to be practical about these issues. I mean, people are buying sporting equipment at the moment, gym mats and things like that so they can exercise at home. These are things they’re going to need.

So for all those people out there isolated, jigsaws are things your children are going to need.

SEX TOYS are things adults are going to need.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BE1j_Taxtvc

Singles Dating

Lets face it online dating will become just that – as to ‘hook-up’ is no longer a safe option and you cannot very well meet for dinner, at a cafe or for drinks.  Meeting someone new is going to be a virtual romance.  AND even if you do – bearing in mind the 1.5m social distancing rule, kissing is out and unsafe.  So far no-one has reported getting the CoronaVirus from sexual intercourse but with no foreplay I do not think that is going to happen.

Sex toys – especially those that run from an app may be the way to consummate a new relationship.

Couples Dating

No longer can you take your partner (married or not) out on a romantic date.  That is a thing of the past and will be for many months to come.  There is some humor that at the end of this pandemic the divorce rate will soar as couples realize that they can no longer stand each other, whilst also at the other end there will be a baby boom as those that do, will.

But 6 months with your partner – we need to spice that up!!!! And what better way than introducing sex toys into your relationship.  There are sex toys for couples, male pleasure products and of course vibrators for women.

Adultsmart online sex toys store will remain open for business hopefully throughout this pandemic so take advantage of the amazing range of adult products that are ready to make your isolation not just bearable BUT FUN!!!

And for the moment you can still visit one of our stores which by the Prime Ministers own example is considered essential shopping for adults.  Sex aids and products will enable you to stay at home, breaking the monotony or isolation in the most pleasurable way.  So if you are not ready to buy online then visit one of our Adult Stores that are open for business FOR NOW!


Comments

5 responses to “Ways To Change Up Your Strap-On Play”

  1. Hi I’ve never done anything like this before here goes its been a while since my wife and I have had sex both in our 50sim trying to get our sex life back on track I was told Spanish fly gold was good so I got it it had no affect what so ever on my wife is there any thing else to try please

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    RichardBus

    Thanks for the post – it really helps me understand.

  3. Nicholas Avatar

    Not sure if I will ever be brave enough to try but interesting article in any case. Tx.

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    JimmyEmise

    You seem to be getting a lot of comments on this article. I like the way that you have added products that are suitable to add on to your strap-on play.

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